Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non-monogamy by Jessica Fern

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non-monogamy by polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern is a practical guide to building healthy, loving non-monogamous relationships through the lens of attachment theory. While attachment theory is often discussed in relation to monogamy, this book addresses the needs of people seeking secure and happy attachments with more than one partner.

Fern extends attachment theory into consensual non-monogamy, introducing her nested model of attachment and trauma to explore how emotional experiences can shape relationship dynamics. Alongside its theoretical framework, the book sets out six specific strategies designed to support the move towards more secure attachments across multiple relationships.

Key details

• Author: Jessica Fern
• Focuses on attachment theory in consensual non-monogamy
• Explores a nested model of attachment and trauma
• Includes six strategies for developing more secure attachments

Synopsis

This guide applies attachment theory to the realities of consensual non-monogamy, offering an approach that considers both attachment and trauma. It examines how emotional experiences may influence relationships and provides tools for navigating the complexities of multiple loving connections. The book also introduces concepts intended to broaden the wider conversation around attachment theory.