The 3rd Alternative: Solving Life's Most Difficult Problems by Stephen R Covey

The 3rd Alternative: Solving Life's Most Difficult Problems is a book by Stephen R Covey. It focuses on a practical approach to resolving conflict through what Covey calls the “Third Alternative”.

Key details

• Author: Stephen R Covey
• Centres on the “Third Alternative” approach to resolution
• Positions the method as moving beyond “my way” and “your way”
• Includes examples and stories drawn from Covey’s work as a consultant
• Discusses creating better results rather than escalating conflict
• Explores building strong relationships with diverse individuals

Synopsis

In conflict, the usual pattern is framed as a choice between “my way” and “your way”, with the argument turning on whose approach is best. This book sets out a different route: the “Third Alternative”, described as a higher way that aims to move both sides beyond debate or even heated disagreement.

Covey presents Third Alternative thinking as an innovative and practical response to escalating strife and contention, bringing creative solutions, peace and healing. Using key examples and stories from his consulting work, he shows how to create new and better outcomes instead of intensifying conflict, and how to build strong relationships with diverse individuals based on an attitude of winning together.